TheGirl: FW: New post Memorial Day – Baking, School, and Tribu lations

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Hugh Paxton’s Blog feels increasingly further and further away from TheReporterandTheGirl. Our world’s are so very different! Memorial Day? Baking School?

I admire her vigour, her bounce-back, her compassion, all that! And what I do like is her occasional grumpy spate! She’s a very likeable Girl!

But she’s an American Girl, A New York Girl, a Black Girl, a City Girl, and I’m one of those Englishmen who isn’t any of that.

I read TheGirl’s book and still hold firm to my position – it is an excellent book for a receptive audience. It really is, and it is personal and generous. Touching. There’s power in the writing and TheGirl has let us into her diary. A very special privilege.

We Brits don’t really like talking about that sort of stuff.

Publishing anything is extremely hard. Writing a book is hard. Maintaining a blog is hard.

Which is why Hugh Paxton’s Blog feels that this girl’s gold! She doesn’t relent and isn’t a bossy advisory sort.

Even if she is further and further away from my world she comes close from time to time.

Hugh

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Subject: [New post] Memorial Day – Baking, School, and Tribulations

TheGirl posted: "Wow, so it is the end of a much needed long weekend here in New York City. I usually spend at least half of these weekends at the gym, but these last few days were different. In the last few weeks I decided that it was time for me to go back to school,"

New post on TheReporterandTheGirlMINUSTheSuperMan!

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Memorial Day – Baking, School, and Tribulations

by TheGirl

Wow, so it is the end of a much needed long weekend here in New York City. I usually spend at least half of these weekends at the gym, but these last few days were different.

In the last few weeks I decided that it was time for me to go back to school, and pursue an advance degree. Thus, I have spent my free time researching different graduate programs and their requirements, as well as sprucing up a 1,200-word personal statement. I just completed this statement about two hours ago.

I’m hoping to have my proposals and statements written, edited, and rewritten in the next few weeks, so I can just start applying and applying to various schools. Most programs start their application period in August, but a couple I can apply to now– so hopefully by the end of 2015 I will know where I’m going.

It is a tough decision, but I have been out of school and working for 5 years, and my last couple of jobs — I felt "stuck". Meaning, I come in and I do a great job, I get promoted and some more money; everyone is happy with my work blah blah blah, but I don’t seem mobile, like I hit a ceiling or something.

Well, my first job ended in lay-offs, which I recently found out that on my second anniversary of leaving, the organization will close for good. I’m not facing lay-offs now, but I’m in the same place where I started last year, and although I acquired a lot of skills, some of these I don’t see myself using in the long term. Thus, what am I getting out of my current position, except for a paycheck?

New York City is competitive, there are tons of people walking around with B.As, M.As, and all kinds of BS; so maybe a PhD will give me more of an edge, especially since I have a better idea of what I want study and what field I want to work in. As well as being a student will open more opportunities, like internships or fellowships etc….

So I’m feeling optimistic! This is the first in a long time. I even tried a red velvet cake recipe for the second time –without any dye — and I’m proud to say it came out red, moist, and frosted with a yummy traditional ermine frosting.

Thus, I wish you all a happy end to this Memorial Day weekend. A day we remember why we are here; our hopes and dreams and the chance to capture them!

I hope you have your cake, and eat it too!

@ReporterandGirl or on Facebook at TheReporterandTheGirl

TheGirl | May 25, 2015 at 9:44 pm | Tags: baking, hopes, memorial day, red velvet cake | Categories: Musings and Life | URL: http://wp.me/p2MqP7-on

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